tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1889703609429110183.post6522921058823322343..comments2023-03-25T07:02:46.340-07:00Comments on CILOSOPHY: Big, strong and useful - some late-night thoughtscilosophyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10733313024890630138noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1889703609429110183.post-34174200891669025372017-06-15T02:16:20.820-07:002017-06-15T02:16:20.820-07:00A wall is a good thing when things get toxic. You ...A wall is a good thing when things get toxic. You need to protect yourself, and remember that she is an adult, and you shouldn't be made to feel like the only adult in the relationship. <br />I appreciate how hard that might be though with the guilt. It's tough and I hope you can work through it. Therapy is definitely a good idea! Hang in there xxHeidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01432089507602828735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1889703609429110183.post-41354435228008938292017-06-13T21:35:42.050-07:002017-06-13T21:35:42.050-07:00Sometimes we need those boundaries, that separatio...Sometimes we need those boundaries, that separation. I find that people in healthcare professions (including myself) generally feel more responsible for others even at personal cost, and are slower to take what they need, and to look after themselves, even though there shouldn't be any shame or guilt in it.Queen of Spadeshttp://intruderalert.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1889703609429110183.post-7812784554698794532017-06-13T11:37:05.542-07:002017-06-13T11:37:05.542-07:00That's some intense stuff but then again we al...That's some intense stuff but then again we all have a few people we have intense relationships like that with so you mustn't feel alone. Everyone has a different take on motherhood but perhaps your therapist can help talk through motherhood highlighting certain issues for you and also that might free you to become a mother from a deeper level as it seems you are doing some intense daughtering. Take care xCoulda shoulda wouldahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12507021618497645667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1889703609429110183.post-10589651330195625382017-06-13T07:16:03.479-07:002017-06-13T07:16:03.479-07:00💕💕Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com